Any way just told myself its just a passing phase Insha Allaah and that she is irritated or upset with something that she cannot express. Tried to be very nice to her but she was in a full rebelling mood and just wanted to see me and her father getting annoyed with her behaviour! She was like falling down for lies and was trying to get our sympathy and all that. Tried ignoring but patience ran out too several times, had to be firm and stern with her at times. Any way made lot of duas and masha Allaah today she was back to normal!
This kind of behaviour has happened before too few times but did not last long like this time. I am sure sisters with many kids would have experienced this many times. Please give some advise as to what is the best way to handle this Insha Allaah.
I turn to my Lord in every difficulty and that has helped, but I am worried that if I had done something wrong to her in the midst of all the anger, then I need to rectify it and make taubah! I keep asking Allaah to forgive me if I have wronged her in any way knowingly or unknowingly!
Subahanallaah! What a test! Indeed children are a trial for us in this world! Oh Allaah give us sabr and guide us ! Aameen!
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Aameen! Does this still happen? Have you learned how to handle it when it does happen?
Alhamdulillaah it did not happen to this extent after that. The thing is now we realize that all of us were going through a hard time and it has affected her as well. Any now we have learnt to handle her masha Allaah.
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